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Music in the Home |
Fantasy vs. Reality |
A Painter in the Family
Very
fortunate is the child who is born into a home where the ideals are high, and where the
books, the music, and the conversation are of the best. But such culture is not universal
… the average parents have not had in their own childhood such an environment, and it is
because there is such a spiritual awakening through the world concerning the child and its
needs, that among the hundred and one questions their earnest mothers and fathers are
asking is, ‘What shall we give our children to read?’
Delineator
Magazine, 1904
| Art, music and literature are integral components
of America's cultural existence. As such, it has long been considered best for
children to be well-versed as to the best books, the best art and the best music. |
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Music
in the Home |
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Music was an
important part of life in the Kendrick household, as it was in many an upper and
middle-class household. By the 1920s, it was considered by some to be an essential
component in the creation of a well-rounded child. As Mrs. Herman M. Biggs of the National
Federation of Day Nurseries stated in 1927, “It is the duty of every mother to give her
child the opportunity to become acquainted with at least one musical instrument.”
Eula Kendrick was ahead of the
curve as far as music in the home was concerned. Like their mother, Rosa-Maye and Manville
both played the piano and sang. They took music lessons after school, as well. In 1913,
Rosa-Maye joined her school's Glee Club in a performance that had - for the singers, at
least - a shocking conclusion:
Last night the Glee Club
sang at the Orpheum. I decided to sing too, at the last moment, and wore my grey
broadcloth. We sang two songs and then for encore we decided that instead of just
singing the last verse of the first [song] as we had done before, we would sing
the first song all the way through. Now since we didn’t tell Mr. Klindt of this,
just as we reached the middle of the song full force – down went the curtain! Can
you imagine our amazement? The girls stared at one another with blank faces, then
all began to laugh. It was a good joke on us.
Her father responded jokingly,
I enjoyed the joke on your
club of singers; the only inference to be drawn is that the curtain man concluded
there was a limit to what the audience could stand and took the only available
means at hand to relieve it of any further punishment!
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addition to the piano, Manville played the mandolin and, according
to his father, another instrument as well. Writing about a proposed trip in 1915, John
told Eula: “Manville says he can get away with me and I am sure it will be agreeable with
all the neighbors, owing to his devotion to that horn.” No word what kind of horn it was,
but we know Manville owned a bugle at one time! When he was at boarding school, Manville
belonged to a Mandolin Club that included over twenty players.
The piano
was probably the most common instrument in the American home. Dozens of advertisements and
magazine articles sponsored by the National Piano Manufacturers’ Association in the 1910s
and 1920s touted the numerous benefits of the piano for both the children and their
families:
Poise,
Magnetism, Charm, Culture – these qualities go hand in hand with the ability to play the
piano. For a hundred years the American family has rallied around the piano. It is the
heart-instrument of the home. In great mansions, in small homes, wherever there are
children, the country over, the piano is a vital force in broadening culture and
strengthening the ties of the home life.
With
the opportunity to learn an instrument came the obligation to practice the instrument!
Most children disliked practicing, something Mary Wilson Sherwood noted in her 1881 book,
Home Amusement:
The family circle which has learned three or four
instruments, the brothers who can sing, are to be envied. They can never suffer from a
dull evening. However, the only deep shadow to the musical picture is the necessity of
practicing, which is not a home amusement; it is a home torture.
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| Fantasy vs. Reality in
Literature |
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Before the 1850s, fairy tales and
make-believe stories by such literary luminaries as Mother Goose and The Brothers Grimm
were frowned upon – unless the message was that disobedience and deception were very
wicked and very dangerous. After all, parents counted on books to help give moral
instruction to their young.
Even into
the 20th Century, parents were concerned about the impact of fairy story staples – ovens
hidden inside candy cottages, poisoned apples, and birds baked in a pie – on their
innocent children’s young minds. As McCall’s Magazine noted in 1912:
Many
grownups have serious doubts about the effect of fairy tales; that these old tales are
full of horrors which fill the minds of children with images causing terror; that they
often depict the mean and sordid, suggesting evil quite as much as good. … if their
children hear so much that is purely fanciful they will be dissatisfied with things of
every-day life or fail to distinguish between the real and the unreal.
Starting in
the last half of the nineteenth century, literature that excited the imaginations of
children began to appear. Books such as Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland (1865),
The Adventures of Tom Sawyer (1879), The Wizard of Oz (1900), and Peter Pan
(1906) were encouraged as harmless pleasures.
As they grew
older, adventure-loving boys were encouraged to read books by Robert Louis Stevenson,
Alexander Dumas and Rudyard Kipling. Girls, considered to be overly influenced by “the
mild literary gruel of sentimental girlhood,” were steered towards the works of Charles
Dickens, Jane Austen, Willa Cather and Louisa Maye Alcott.
Like other young Americans,
Rosa-Maye and Manville, as well as their own children, enjoyed all these books, plus
poetry, history, travelogues and magazine short stories.
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A Painter in the Family |
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When
Eula Kendrick was a girl, she studied art as well as music. At finishing school in
Texas, she learned to paint with oils and executed several large canvases prior to
her marriage. Later, she did smaller paintings of ranch scenes and Sheridan area
scenery.
We know little of the artistic talents of
Manville and Rosa-Maye other than the fact that Rosa-Maye completed a couple of
small watercolors and Manville doodled on everything! Two of their children -
cousins Hugh Kendrick and Kendrick Harmon - were both born artists. Kendrick Harmon
became very skilled at detailed pen and ink drawings while Hugh, who died in 1952,
apparently showed some talent at an early age. In 1939, Manville sent his mother one
of Hugh's drawings, made when the boy was five years old:
I am enclosing one of Hugh’s works of art. I never thought to
have a painter in the family, but that seems to be the way of it. How he would be
if the process were involved in that of schooling, I do not know; but when he does
it for his own amusement, there seems to be no labor of composition. He dashes it
off with a bold, free hand that is worth the beholding.
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