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Bringing Up Babies
The Little Daughter | The
Second Child | The Proud Papa
How thankful I was to hear that
... you had at last your heart's desire – a little one. I know you must be very
proud of the baby – such a large child, too, for so slight a mother. … You will
appreciate now what a blessing and comfort has heretofore been denied you. The
little thing will become such a part of your lives that from now on your one thought
will be for her welfare. Kiss the bonnie wee thing for me.
Correspondence, Laura Zook to
Eula Kendrick, 1897
When John
and Eula Kendrick married in 1891, they moved to Montana and immediately started trying to
have a family. In 1897, after several false alarms and at least one miscarriage,
Eula was more than ready to give birth to her first child. Since most children at
that time were not born in hospitals, she relied on a private nurse to take care of
the delivery:
I went … into town … to await the arrival of the
“stork” – long delayed in visiting us. Mr. Kendrick left me at the [Sheridan] Inn, where I
spent a week or ten days, then went out to my nurse’s home. The little daughter arrived in
due time.
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The Little Daughter |
That little daughter was Rosa-Maye Kendrick.
She was named for her grandmother, Anna Maye Kendrick, and her aunt, Rosa Kendrick.
Rosa had died several years earlier, so those who had known her, such as John
Pritchett of Texas, were pleased that her name lived on in John's daughter:
I see you have named her for Miss Rosa. You could
not have found a better name nor one with purer association. My best wishes are with and
for the little girl, and when I say that I hope she will make as noble a woman as her aunt
for whom she is named, I can say nothing further in that line.
Shortly
after her birth, Rosa-Maye was taken to the OW Ranch in southern Montana, where she lived
until she was eleven years old. Ranch life suited her and, like her mother before her,
Rosa-Maye loved to ride horses.
She
began riding in her parents’ arms when but three
months old, progressing from this infantile method to first
a pillow in front of the
rider to sitting behind and
holding tight round her mother or father’s waist. At
three she was turned loose on her pony to ride as she
pleased around the yard, or outside along with older people, and at four she was riding everywhere, going as far as 20 miles in three hours
with her mother.
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Three years after Rosa-Maye was born, the
Kendricks welcomed their second child, a son. They and their friends were delighted, as
indicated by more than one congratulatory letter. John's friend George Bissell summed it up nicely:
I want to extend my congratulations to you upon the
advent of a genuine cowpuncher into your home and my compliments to Mrs. Kendrick and
Manvel, whom I trust will prove a “chip off the old block.” It seems almost useless to wish
you good luck as the fair goddess always smiles on you! And now you have a son and heir! I
hope you will wear your honors gracefully and train him up a credit to his good mother.
"Manvel" quickly became "Manville." According to
Manville's Baby Book, as completed by Eula Kendrick, the spelling of the name
was changed at the insistence of Mister Hiram S. Manville:
First spelled the name
Manvel Kendrick, the original family name of Mr. Manville for whom he was
named, but he protested so we changed it to Manville. Mr. Hiram S. Manville
was 70 years older than Manville.
John
Kendrick respected Hiram Manville a great deal; in some ways, he looked upon the
older man as a surrogate father. Even though he didn't approve of the original
spelling, Hiram Manville was very pleased - and more than a little surprised -
that John and Eula named their son after him. As Mr. Manville noted to Eula in
1900:
You did it! It was a
complete surprise – “Manville Kendrick.” What a name as that to put onto a
poor little Boy. Do you suppose he would, if he had been consulted in the
matter, have been born if he had known he was to be afflicted with such a
name? … You know it a pretty heavy name to carry. Well it’s a Boy, Thank the
Lord, for that I say. Don’t you say so too? You want – I want – everybody
wants another John Kendrick, if not in name, one by nature.
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Unlike
many male parents of the day, John Kendrick took a great deal of interest in his children,
and was not shy about expressing his feelings about them. His ranching business forced him
to travel a great deal, and in his letters home - such as the following written in 1904 -
he nearly always stated how much he missed Eula and his "little chicks":
As our train literally flew along at
the foot of the Rockies last night there came into my mental vision a picture
not of the vast stretches of green valley and mountain side but of a Little
Mother and Two Sweet Babes in a far away home. The mother reading to the babes
and ... I thought of what a happy house it was and how much the father and
husband of this house gained in renewed courage from this house and how much
clearer his vision became during the restful times spent there.
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