For upper-middle class newlyweds, the wedding
trip or honeymoon was an opportunity to get to know one another without the
pressures of family and friends. Catering to these lucky newlywed couples were
honeymoon resorts. Most were associated with famous natural features such as geysers,
mountains or waterfalls. Hotels at Niagara Falls, the California Coast and Yellowstone
National Park were extremely popular among honeymooners both before and after the turn
of the century. Just an hour or two after their Greeley, Colorado, wedding in January
1891, the newly joined Mr. and Mrs. John B. Kendrick left on their two-month wedding
trip, one which included a stop at the famous falls:
We stopped 1st at Brown Palace Hotel,
Denver, Colorado, then Paxton Hotel (the old one of that name), Omaha, Neb., then to
the famous old Cattleman's hotel in Chicago, the Palmer House (bought furniture for
ranch home in Chicago), then to Niagara Falls, then to Albany, N. Y., and down to
New York City by boat, then to Philadelphia, then to Washington, D.C., and back to
Greeley.
At nearly all these stops, Eula and John had
certain social obligations. They had letters of introduction to friends of their
friends, business contacts and merchants. Eula, as a newly-married Victorian society
matron, had to pack for every social occasion that might present itself during her
wedding trip: morning dresses in which to make morning calls, luncheon dresses for
lunch, afternoon dresses for afternoon calls, tea dresses for tea, dinner dresses for
dinner, ball gowns for dancing, and nightgowns for sleeping –
if she had any time
left over! She also needed hats, coats, boots, slippers, gloves, parasols, jewelry,
collars, cuffs, cosmetics and perfumes, plus a wide variety of feminine articles such
as stockings, garters, chemises, camisoles, petticoats, bustles, corsets, and in the
winter, a wool union suit for warmth.
A Victorian bride was advised to camouflage
her newlywed status while on her honeymoon. When one couple arrived at their hotel in
Niagara Falls, fresh from the wedding reception, they very carefully spread newspapers
over the floor of their room before changing from their traveling clothes. The paper
served to catch any stray grains of rice which might have betrayed their newly married
status to the hotel staff.
While rail trips were common, cruises
were also popular, especially after the turn of the century. After they were married
in 1929, Manville and Diana Kendrick took a honeymoon cruise from Baltimore to San
Francisco via the Panama Canal, then back East by rail. Two years earlier, Rosa-Maye
Kendrick and Hubert Harmon had combined a temporary move with their honeymoon: they
took a cruise to London, England, where Hubert had a new
job.