Home in
Wyoming
In 1889, following time at finishing schools in Boulder, Colorado,
and Austin, Texas,
seventeen-year-old Eula was reintroduced to one of her father's former employees, a cowboy
named John B. Kendrick. She remembered meeting him before: at age seven she had climbed
into the lanky cowboy's lap and announced that when she was old enough, she intended to
marry him. In 1891, she did just that.
Following a church wedding in Greeley and a reception at the Wulfjen residence,
the newlyweds left immediately for New York on the afternoon train. When their two-month
wedding trip through the Eastern U. S. was over, Eula had to face the reality of her new home: a mud-chinked log
cabin fifty miles from the nearest town.
It would be several months before Eula would get to live in that
cabin, however. Upon their return from the East, Eula went back to her parents' home while
John went to Montana to finish construction. He felt that the rough bachelor digs he'd
left behind were not good enough for his cultured bride. It was a lonely time for both
John and Eula and letters flew back and forth between them. For a man accustomed to
solitude, separation from a loved one was a new thing for John and he expressed his
loneliness eloquently and often during this period:
Do you miss your old man? Not one half so much as I miss "the girl I
left behind me." Somehow the feeling of loneliness is inexplainable. Everything lacks
interest: the scenes along the road, the different views of the snow peaks of the Big
Horns, things that I used to enjoy so much.
By the end of April 1891, the cabin was still not finished. Fed up
with living apart, Eula announced to her husband that she was going to Montana, even if
she had to sleep on the floor and cook for herself. This response delighted John to no
end:
You can never know how many false notions you have driven from my
mind in your proposal to come out and do your own cooking, not that I want you to do it,
but I did want so much for you to show the spirit of a true little wife and helpmate
and the one thing needed to fill my cup of happiness you have supplied.
The OW Ranch in southeastern Montana was Eula's home for the next
eighteen years. Though isolated and far from friends, she had no time to be bored: she
cooked, cleaned, ironed, sewed and did all the bookkeeping for the ever-growing Kendrick
Cattle Company.
After her children were born, Eula took on the responsibility of
providing them with an education. Without assistance or formal teacher training, she
prepared Rosa-Maye for the seventh grade and Manville for fifth. In addition to reading,
writing, math, science and geography, the two children were also taught to swim, shoot,
skate and ride. As Eula later wrote in her memoirs:
There
were no near neighbors or school house nearby, hence no playmates, so mother had to be
teacher and companion. Rising before six o'clock in keeping with country customs,
Rosa-Maye and her brother were at their lessons by seven, which in winter would mean
before good daylight. As the afternoons were given over to long horse back rides, the
lessons were completed by noon, and then the fun began. If it was summer, the three would
go for a swim in a not too deep hole in Hanging Woman, the little creek that wiggled along
circuitously from the divide ... In the early evening, too, they often went shooting for
prairie dogs –
surprising one (as well as themselves) occasionally –
or skating in the
winter, when the country was frost bound. Always about five they would gather around the
lighted table for an hour of reading before the early supper, which was often followed by
one or two hours of reading afterwards.
In 1908, the Kendricks decided that it was time to build a house in
Sheridan and spend winters in town. The move allowed the children an opportunity to attend
public school and gave John Kendrick better access to the local business community, one in
which he had become increasingly active over the years. It also offered Eula new
opportunities. After nearly two decades of isolated rural life, she seemed ready to return
to the active social life she'd known as a young girl in Greeley. She was soon busy with
the Cecilian Club, the Methodist-Episcopal Church and the Sheridan Women's Club. When it
was finally finished in 1913, Trail End became the scene of many teas, receptions,
parties, dances, open houses and dinners attended by businessmen, politicians, ranchers
and cowboys alike.