The American Wedding

"First come the bridesmaids in bouffant dresses of frilly pink taffeta, their arms full of pink roses … Then comes the matron of honor in pale though brilliant blue, her roses an exquisite contrast in color to her dress; finally [Rosa-Maye] on her father's arm … her long white satin train, covered with lace edged tulle spread spotless as a field of lilies in bloom."

Francis Parkinson Keyes, Delineator Magazine, 1927

Whether she was the politician's daughter who fell in love with a dashing Army officer or the upstairs maid who found her beau through the classifieds, all turn-of-the-century brides had two things in common: customs and etiquette.

From the middle of the nineteenth century through the early decades of the twentieth, most aspects of life in America were controlled by the peculiarities of Victorian Society – a society based on the practice of extreme politeness combined with a rigid "Puritanesque" morality that found threatening overtones in everything from bare ankles to spicy food.

Marriage was no exception. From the courtship to the proposal, the wedding to the reception, the honeymoon to the new home – there was a "proper" way to do everything. If the rules weren't followed, social disgrace could be the result.

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Last Updated March 2010